Intellectual Development in Children: Right Time, Right Guidance

Introduction:

Many parents unknowingly influence their child’s emotional and intellectual development by how they react to their behavior. For example, if a one-year-old child sees a snake and doesn’t get scared, parents may assume the child is “brave.” In reality, the child is not emotionally developed enough to understand danger.

On the other hand, if a two- or three-year-old gets scared of the same snake, parents might label them as “cowardly.” In truth, fear at that age indicates emotional awareness and cognitive maturity — it’s a sign of healthy development, not weakness.

Tips for Enhancing Cognitive Development in Children:

1. Introduce Puzzle Games:

A child’s cognitive abilities begin developing around the age of one. Support this growth with age-appropriate puzzle games — not mobile-based ones, but physical puzzles that involve matching shapes or forming meaningful images.

2. Rotate Toys Instead of Giving All at Once:

Giving all toys at once can make the child lose interest quickly. Rotate toys regularly. This keeps curiosity alive and helps them stay engaged longer.

3. Give Simple Instructions:
Give commands like “find your toy” or “bring that newspaper.” This teaches them to follow instructions, builds focus, and improves understanding. Make it playful so they enjoy learning.

4. Introduce learning Music Early:

Music has a powerful impact on emotional and intellectual growth. It promotes creativity, calms the mind, enhances spiritual awareness, and keeps negative energy away. Encourage children to learn any form of music — singing, playing an instrument, or dancing as early as possible.

What Not to Say:

Avoid phrases like “Boys don’t cry”:
Suppressing emotions is not strength. Let children express their feelings. Crying is not a weakness — it’s a healthy emotional release. Teaching kids to express emotions openly helps them grow into  emotionally intelligent individuals.

Conclusion:

Cognitive development is a gradual process that needs patience, time, and consistent effort from parents. It’s not about pushing children but about guiding them gently, understanding their emotions, and creating a nurturing environment. When parents engage positively, children naturally grow into thoughtful, emotionally balanced individual.